Have you heard of the FABS? The FABS are quadruplets; they are not identical but they are very Cheap Authentic NFL Jerseys , very similar! The FABS are: Fear, Anger, Blame and Shame. This quartet love to arrive Cheap NFL Jerseys Online , uninvited, at people''s houses and literally stay forever. They will certainly stay as long as you allow them to; they never seem to get tired of hanging around and causing troubles for the unsuspecting host.
The FABS love to attach themselves to abused children, but they really lie in wait for anyone who is vulnerable. Children who have been abused learn early that the world is an unsafe place Cheap NFL Jerseys Free Shipping , and that they have no personal power with which to protect themselves. They internalize everything that is done to them, and believe everything that is said to them. This provides a fertile environment for the FABS to flourish in. And usually, all of the fear Cheap NFL Jerseys Wholesale , anger, blame and shame is directed squarely at the self. The child feels at fault for everything that happens.
However, the FABS can move in on anyone at any time. When life becomes too stressful or hurtful Cheap NFL Jerseys From China , then it provides an opening for the FABS to move in. Whenever a person feels guilty for their actions then the side door opens and the FABS can sneak in.
FABS live in the dark. They tend to hide in the dark corners of our minds, avoiding the light of day at all costs. If the sun were to shine on the FABS then it is very likely that the host would take immediate steps to eliminate them. It is much easier to lurk in the subconscious and just spring out whenever the opportunity presents itself. Then the FABS kick in and keep the host from moving forward in their lives.
Some of the symptoms of FABS in your life are:
Feeling as if everything that happens is your "fault"
Constant apologizing
Feelings of depression and unworthiness
Getting stuck in bad relationships
Always being a "giver"
Surrounding yourself with "takers"
Being afraid of change
Never standing up for oneself
Being overweight
Back problems
People infested with FABS are often overweight because they use food as a medication, unknowingly trying to eliminate the pain that FABS causes; or they use weight as protection against an uncertain and painful world. Excess weight can be a wonderful buffer Cheap NFL Jerseys China , and can become as comforting as a favorite blanket. FABS sufferers often have back problems as well, because they consciously or unconsciously feel that they have no support in their lives. Lack of emotional support=back pain!
Once FABS have moved into your life they are extremely hard to get rid of, but not impossible by any means! It takes work Cheap NFL Jerseys , dedication and a real desire to get them out of your life. You may need a good FABS exterminator, which can be a therapist or a personal coach. Getting rid of the FABS in your life is a very important step to take, no matter how difficult it may be. Once they are gone Cheap Authentic Jerseys , you cannot imagine how good life will feel, how bright the sun shines and how far you can go on your path!
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Sibyl can be contacted at sibyl@ Common Computer Problems and Quick Fixes Computers Articles | November 25 Cheap Jerseys Online , 2011 Computers have been a part of our day to day lives for quite some time now but still when they crash we go ballistic and most of the time we don''t know what to do and end up calling a repair shop or our trustworthy IT man. In this article I''ll list some of the most common computer issues and a quick fix for them.
Before you continue reading this article is for computer users little to intermediate experience, if you are computer savvy you will find some of the problems listed here stupid so to save you from wasting your time, stop reading now if you are a computer geek like me.
Loss of power or no power at all
How many times you were chatting away on MSN or navigating through the web and all of sudden your computer dies away. First of all don''t panic then check to see if the lights are still on in your house. Now check the power lead if it wasn''t power cut and the lights on your power lead aren''t on it might have burned and you will need to buy a new one.
If the lights on your power lead are on check the power light on your computer if they are off check the cable connection sometimes while cleaning you accidentally touched causing it to be badly connected to your computer which in turned caused the loss of power.
Laptop users also need to be aware of their battery life Cheap Jerseys Free Shipping , avoid keeping it plugged in all the time. Use your batteries till they are running out and then plug it in to recharge. The less you live your laptop plugged in the power supply the longer your batteries will live.
Software not responding
This is a very common issue especially if you use Windows. When software?s stop responding the first thing to do is give it a couple of seconds to see if goes back to normal if not hit CTRL+ALT+DEL all at once. You will taken to windows starting screen once there select "Task Manager".
You will be taken back to your desktop with the Task Manager''s dialogue box open, select the program that is not responding and click on "end task". This will close the program allowing you to run it again.
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